Nicolesingslave

BDSM on a Thursday night is like adding nitro to the weekend jetpack. I am still smiling with only 2 hours sleep and Friday feels like a weekend. The SGDOMSUBS group (http://group.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs) is Singapore's very own homegrown SM society that is open to all D/s enthusiast. The group helps people bring their SM play to the next level by bringing its members together to share their various techniques of SM play. The SGDOMSUBS society promotes safe, sane and consensual play at all times.

There were about 20-25 SGDOMSUBS members that showed up for the meet. I lost count after the 15 minutes when I saw my slaves lounging around and not doing anything. Slave ada was put in bondage by Sir Alex and slave dickson was put to good use as a foot massager. One of the member who came to the meet last night was very generous. She contributed a lot of gears to the group. We'll keep the her gears for safe keeping and she can always get it back if she wants to; just email me or slave ada ..;-)

Mistress MK and her slave brought some magnificent leather and PVC wear from Hong Kong. She's got an excellent eye for high quality and fashionable goods.

Master Alex our resident rope bondage master, Sir Hendrik, Mistress Rayne, Mistress MK, Mistress Jacquiline, slave dickson, Joy, slave Ada, Ivy, ....i forgot the names of many more wondeful people I met that night. I think there were 20-25 people altogether although they came and went at different times. One note to take, don't get any blonde gurls to remember stuff. A few drinks and *~+++$%%$%^...kaput goes the gurl. In case the reader is wondering, I don't post their pictures unless I get their consent.

P.S. if anyone finds my plug which slave Ada was sucking on, please contact me. It would be embarassing letting the MOX management team find my plug lying around somewhere. It needs washing.

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Singapore BDSM society: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sgdomsubs

After a weekend of hectic schedule, what more can a gurl ask for other than her best gurlfrens to hangout with in their favorite bar. What would a night be without bondage? Check out Kaila's blue cuffs - Kaila is the gorgeous gurl in white blouse. Slave Ada took a surprise picture of us while I was trying to figure out if I should hog-tie Kaila or Ivy. LOL.

Backstage bar was very crowded that Saturday night and the gurls were a sporting, so we decided to venture to St James Power station despite all the bad rep we hear on how they treat tgurls. Having travel all of the world and being in some of the coolest bars from Shanghai, Beijing, NYC, SF, Sydney, Berlin, Munich, London, Paris, I thought well let's go check out the bar in my own back yard.

True enough to the bad rep at St James (http://www.stjamespowerstation.com/), we were denied entrance into the Gallery Bar. The bull dog at the door said that we're not VIP enough. I guess our Singaporean Dollars have lesser value than the regular people who spend them. We manage to gain entry into the Boiler Room which is still within the managemnet of St James and of course we had to pay the full cover when we fail to produce our ID to prove our gender.

For you all tgurls out there my advise is give St James a pass!! It's not worth the cover charge. Go to any of the bars in the Tanjong Pagar belt (http://www.utopia-asia.com/singbars.htm) and have a blast.

The Chinese zodiac year of the Rat started in all earnest last Wednesday. It was a time of relationship renewal and forgiveness. This was a time to give thanks for the people that are related and associated to us. I was very tied up for most part of the festive season....

I would like to protest in my difficult position but darn I was in heavenly bliss to say much. So the year started with me feeling like a rat in a cat's liar. May the rest 2008 provide serendipity of luck and cash as we burrow through to 2009.

I am glad to be alive up to now and be blessed with the friends all over world. Hitting the big 24 means it was time to reflect.

I have had so much fun all over the world. From Europe to Japan to Australia. I would like to go to the US and the Middle East. These places seems quite far but one never knows. In Singapore, I collared a beautiful slave who just happened to be my best tgurl friends.

She's a delicate slave. Unfortunately most of my slaves has a lifespan of 3-4 months. I think I am too devious as a Mistress. The problem of making your best tgurl friend your slave is to ride the line between friends and slave. Which do you keep? 

I am a lifestyle BDSM'er and not a pro. I receive so many mails a day from slaves wanna-be asking me to be their Dominant. After more than five years into this lifestyle, I stop reading the mail and just put them into the thrash bin. I am very selective of my slaves and Dominant. Yes, I am a sWitch. This means that I sub to the right person. I do have several Dominants whom I love and I am still considering their offer to go full time.

Yes, I am a kinky transgender that rides the grey world of topics tabooed by society. This makes living worthwhile. Most people go through their lives like automaton. Waking up, going to work, go dinner, go gym, go bath, go sleep. Only one day they find themselves being too old to do what they really want to do.

So live life with no regrets, make every day count. Am I going to give up being Kinky?...LMAO. If I am going to hell for what I am doing, I'll be the queen of hell. If I am slated to go to heaven, I'll be the kinkiest angel whipping heaven into shape.

Happy year of the rat.

With the snow the year of the rat looks like it is going to be a time to dig out from all the mess. The stock market tottering precariously like humpty dumpty and maybe it's time to move somewhere the sun never sets and the cheese aplenty. So who's going to give me that elusive warmth?