A saturday night of umbrella drinks

Singapore, 30th August 2009.

It was a nights when good friends met for a round of umbrella drinks to exchange experience about our personal trek through the bleakest economic winter. It has been tough for everyone and the tired smiles showed. The consensus is that things are improving and Singapore has been luckier than most places. There was a brief discussion of the slow pace of the Calendar 2010 project. *Choke* Well, with everyone working multiple jobs to stay afloat is not a wonder that there was miniscule progress made. It takes time, energy, patience and faith to transforms free spirited friends into a cohesive work team.

A very deep philosophical discussion cropped up. The topic revolved around dealing with personal issues and revealing the hidden half to loved ones. Adaline gave us two wise advises when it came to opening the closet: one has to consider
the consequence from the wider social circle and one's ability to take gossips in stride. There were five obvious facets to transitioning that we could conclude. Life is a journey with a start and an end. In the course of the journey, we will learn as well as educate others. Thirdly, the destination is not as important as the journey. It's like climbing up a beautiful mountain early in the morning to admire the sunrise for a few hours. Eventually we have to descent. Fourthly, we can't escape from the circle of people whom we are associated with no matter how hard we try. Lastly, how we treat others is important. The fourth and last conclusions were derived by looking at how human lives were designed: we are meant to learn and teach. The endeavor to unleash the inner student and teacher requires tremendous courage. After the dizzy round of deep discussions, the gurls went over to Dixie's for a few rounds of pool.

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smudger: 08/31/2009 1:19 PM

Hi Nics ! , yeah life is a bit tight at the moment but it will not last forever . Financial drops are nothing new , still they can cause no amount of damage to a countries economy . I hope as IT profesional you are doing ok and do not have any financial cut backs . Myself , i am ok and working hard to make shure it stays that way .
So luv , i must say , you and the gurls looked super , always perfectly dressed and styled , i liked your red and white dress , tight in the right places .
Interesting to see that on this particular evening , this topic came up . You are all in my eyes , being yourselves , very brave , finding your real selves . You are absolutely right , life is a journey , you have to take control , learn , stand up for certain things , be compassionate . That is why i admire , not only your own but the Gurls , their courage to be themselves .
Anyway , you are all beautiful looking and i am looking forward to the next favourite pics ,

take care luv , big kisses and hugs ,

H

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A saturday night of umbrella drinks

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